Questions & Answers
We are a gay couple and are interested in learning more about tantra massage. Do you have any experience with gay couples and will the sessions be conducted by a man or a woman?
Reply from Leandra:
I do have experience with gay and bisexual men wanting to experience and benefit from a Tantra Sacred Massage session. We however also usually have a gay or bisexual man that can work with you. This is dependant on availabiltiy. Watch the website for details on the Cape Town and Johannesburg pages
I think the deciding factor for the two of you, whether you see me or not, is how you feel around a woman and her body. If you feel comfortable and can relax with that, there should be no difficulty in working with me. Tantra is a lot about the balance of the inner male and female - the yin/yang balance - therefore it can be beneficial for a gay guy to work with a woman for a while. She represents and relates to you inner female and in so doing assists you with the integration of both aspects of your being. As this work is nothing like a sexual or erotic contact, it can be quite healing for a homosexual man to work with a woman.
In the 4 hour couples workshop, you will work mainly with each other, I simply show you what to do and guide you through it. You will learn various bonding rituals which will benefit your relationship as a whole, as well as some physical work to benefit your sensuality and sexuality. The process will give you tools to allow a deeper emotional and spiritual intimacy to grow as well as enhancing the physical intimacy.
The climax of the workshop will be learning to give each other the lingam massage (tantric massage of the male genitals) and should you wish, also the healing anal massage (which is given gently and focuses on a massage of the prostrate gland - very healthy for guys!). Here it would become very 'hands on' from my side, as I show you the grips and movements and culminating in each of you taking turns to receive and to give.